Wednesday, November 7, 2012

and on the other end

The people who dont come around here at all..

Yeah, I know they arent going to see it,  but I have to bitch about it anyway.

I have told a few of my nearest and dearest about my blog.... I think this is the ONE place where I am truly myself...

Sadly enough,  the girl who calls herself my best friend,  read me once, while waiting at the airport.  Never came back.  But then she sends me text messages to ask how things are going.  I tell her over and over,  read my blog,  you will see more than you care to know....

My "significant other"  I told him about it a couple of times,  and not once,  NOT ONCE did he ask where to find it or whats it called?  But then again,  if he dont care enough to learn how to save my life,  why should I expect him to read ABOUT my life.  Ass hole.

Other people,  I have told them about it,  then told them that I dont tell just anyone about it,   and they too dont come around....

What the fuck?  I put alot of my time,  and alot of myself into this blog.  If I tell you about it,  have the fucking decency to stop by and read it.....

Or maybe they have,  and found me boring.....

kinda like why is the sky blue?  is it poe tay toe?  or po TAH to??


22 comments:

  1. It's because THEY don't really love you, and WE DO.

    Yeah, I fuckin' said it.

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    1. awww Heff......(Choleesas eyes flutter, and hearts float out of her head)...
      Just the right mixture of sentiment, and profanity

      TOTALLY turned on right now.

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    2. LMFAO !!!! (Yeah, me TOO!)

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  2. dont get me started on this topic...

    my wife has YET to ever come to my blog... and ive been doing this shit for 7 years now....

    it takes dedication to not give a shit that much....

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    1. I am gonna have to apply myself even more to not giving a fuck about the people I give a fuck about.....LOL.
      non caring jerks.

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  3. Hmmmm. I am of the totally opposite camp. I love that most people in my life do not know of nor read my blog. It's freeing. I say what the fuck I want and I don't have to sugar coat the hard things and worry about their fucking feelings, like I do when I talk to them.

    Though my bestie does read it and she says she learns more about me from it than I ever actually tell her. Apparently I am emotionally dead and unavailable in person but I pour that shit out on line.

    Sorry people who you want to come here - to show that they care - are not supportive of you. I say they are fuckers, but what do I know.

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    1. they ARE fuckers...you apparently know alot.

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  4. My wife thought my blog was cute at first, but I guess when the girls started following, she sort of got irritated, and then she just plain made fun of it, and still does. "Ooo, you are going to get sooo rich off your blog". My friends also liked it but got bored. Luckily my good friend "Ben" is a co-administrator and he still posts approximately once a week.

    Screw'em all!!

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  5. However, like Annabelle, it is kind of nice now, knowing people I know DON'T read it.

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    1. I dont tell EVERYONE about it....
      Cause some of them dont need to be here.

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  6. The kind that irritate me are the ones who follow to get you to follow back and then you never see them again. I don't care how great their blog is... and some of them are really good and I may still read... but I stop leaving comments.

    PS: My family could care less about my blogging, they think it's a waste of time.

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    1. I try to comment when I read, but sometimes I just do not have anything worth while to say.
      Blogs need an attendance box.

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  7. I may have mentioned that I blog ONCE to my husband and son, but I never told them how to find me. And they never asked. I like knowing that no one knows. It is more freeing; although I do live in fear that one day someone who shouldn't will stumble across it.

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  8. BUT! At the same time, that must be slightly liberating, don't you think? You can write about your life and not worry that the people who are involved in it daily, will ever read what you've posted.
    I WISH there were a way to re-tract my Mother's knowledge of my blog. She's constantly letting me know how disappointed she is in my crassness. I guess I should be glad she reads at all but to judge what I've written? *shrug* Guess I can't have it both ways.

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  9. Yep, I've been doing this shit pretty much for about 8 years now and I still can't get any kind of following. I've pretty much gathered that I am not really that funny nor clever except to myself.

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  10. Some people just don't do blogs. I have tried to refer people from work to great blogs that I see really pertain to the things they like / do (especially diy craft and decorating blogs for my friends that are into that). They just don't care to read RSS. They would much rather update facebook 10 times per day. My best friend and I are in the same industry, we built a business around it, i write a blog for the industry and she maybe has visited the site 2x's in 7 months...

    I like your blog because A. I know you, B. I know your work which makes it all the more funny to me and C. You are funny...I wish I could be funny..instead I read your blog :D

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    1. April!! Im so glad to hear from you!! Im glad you are still visiting..
      I have tried to follow your "money" blog, cause I aspire to be you in that manner, but you dont update it very often.
      Did you see the post about "Sleeping Beauty"??

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    2. Lol yes it was hilarious. I go through stages of blogging...I'm get on a kick then I get bored...then i get on a kick...etc.

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  11. Very few people I know read my but I don't worry about it now. I did at first but fuck 'em, their loss.

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  12. don't let it bring you down. It's an acquired taste, reading blogs. Most people aren't inclined to move beyond the pablum being spooned at them on TV

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  13. i find that the most annoying thing EVER. then sometimes i wish my SO wouldn't read me so much. :/ i don't have many readers left since i switched urls without so much has a "bye!" (you did find me, right?) i'm trying to get over it. ;)

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