Not much new in my world, I AM still boxing...oh yeah, Im quite the professional now....NOT!!
But I do LOVE IT. I wish I would have tackled a bucket list years ago...I am feeling REALLY good about myself right now...
I have so much less tension and stress. I look FORWARD to going. My blood sugars have been right on target!
I was dead set against sparring at first, but now, Im thinking that eventually I might give it a try.....How else will I measure what I am learning unless I actually get in the ring??
OH, and I met a man.....
LOL, sounds like Im going to tell a story huh???
Everyone there is really friendly and helpful.
This guy offers me his jump rope as it was longer than the one I was using..."Thanks"
Then he shows me a few moves.........which was nice, as I AM still new....
The next day he wraps my hands for me.....in a very un-touchy manner
And since everyone there is so helpful, and he is NOT the only one to help me out, I think nothing of it....
He invites me to a party.
I decline stating that I had a baby shower to attend.....Which I did.
Then he says I should go AFTER the baby shower......I said the shower would be over pretty late, as it was more of a shower/get together and it was people I hadnt seen in a while....
At this point, I am wondering if this guy is trying to pick up on me.... he had made absolutely NO obvious moves that would say "hey, Choleesa, I wanna hook up with you"
So not wanting to be THAT girl who just ASSUMES that everyone wants her, I did not mention that I may just be married....
I mean an invitation to a party does NOT equal hook up, or else I woulda been getting it on at the baby shower.
As I am leaving, he is waiting by the door....."so you coming to my party?"
Now, Im in a pickle.....why didnt I mention I was married before??? Maybe the invite extends to any significant other I may have....I told you its been a while, I had a kid at 16, by an idiot that I had been "dating" since I was 14........so Ive NEVER been part of the dating scene, and he still hasnt really made any obvious "gestures" (for lack of a better word) And I dont do subtle....
What if he is just being friendly?.
So I just say, "wheres it at?"
He hands me his number, and as Im walking away, he says: "hey"
I turned around and he says:
"dont bring sand to the beach"
I say: "huh?"
Cause I just didnt comprehend what he was saying so he repeats it: "dont bring sand to the beach"
So I turn to the girl next to me and say "HUH?"
She says to me, HE DONT WANT YOU BRINGING NO GUY TO HIS PARTY.
So I ask my male followers, does allowing a man to be nice to you automatically get taken as available and interested??
Im not at all stupid, but when it comes to these things.....
Im pretty insecure.......sometimes I find it hard to believe that someone would be interested or attracted to me.